Gwen & Tom
Type of Relationship:
Romantic (secret boyfriend outside Avengers)
First Meeting / Origin:
Met outside SHIELD/Avengers circles—likely through something ordinary and humanizing, like a coffee shop, bookstore, or community event (possibly the community garden connection). Their relationship grew organically, away from the chaos of Gwen’s Avenger life.
Core Dynamic:
Sweet, grounded, and low-key. Tom brings Gwen normalcy, stability, and affection without the weight of world-saving responsibility. They share jokes, easy banter, and simple pleasures like dancing, dinners, and puns. Gwen hides her Avenger identity, which creates an undercurrent of tension.
Strengths:
Easy rapport and comfort around each other
Tom’s kindness and genuine care for Gwen
Shared sense of humor (cheesy jokes, puns)
Normalcy and balance for Gwen amid Avenger chaos
Mutual appreciation for small joys (music, food, community)
Weaknesses / Conflicts:
Gwen hides her true identity as an Avenger
Tom feels betrayed when he discovers the truth
His “normal” life contrasts heavily with Gwen’s dangerous, high-profile one
Loki (and other Avengers) dismiss or mock him, straining Gwen’s loyalty
Tom may feel overshadowed or insecure compared to literal gods and heroes
Notable Moments:
Tom greets Gwen with a warm smile and a carefully chosen drink (strawberry margarita guess) → genuine care and attentiveness
His self-deprecating humor about finance job: “coffee that tastes like burnt regret”
Loki dismissing Tom as boring, generic, forgettable → sparks Gwen defending Tom’s kindness
Gwen insisting, “My boyfriend doesn’t need to impress you. He’s kind and thoughtful and really likes me.”
Secret date followed by Loki stalking them (Tony runs background check)
Renaissance Faire outing → Gwen’s cover blown publicly
Fallout: Tom pulls away, needs time
Reconciliation: Gwen fights for relationship, explains truth, Tom begins to accept
Later: agrees to meet the team, excited for Thor’s autograph
Tom’s excitement about Thor’s autograph highlights his down-to-earth fanboy side
Current Status:
Reconciled after initial fallout. Tom knows Gwen’s truth and accepts it, though with lingering insecurities. He remains her steady, normal-life anchor, while slowly being folded into the wider Avengers circle.